tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post5332393186682467451..comments2024-02-16T04:42:50.005-05:00Comments on QueryTracker Blog: Enjoying The WaitPatrickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17771807777617244491noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-8125143041085272602009-05-11T15:13:00.000-04:002009-05-11T15:13:00.000-04:00I don't run! Yipes!I don't run! Yipes!Bunny Hillshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00973253581998410965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-61454342300564591112009-05-09T20:45:00.000-04:002009-05-09T20:45:00.000-04:00What do you mean you don't want to get behind me i...What do you mean you don't want to get behind me in line? <br />*snicker*amberargylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05058327741777322247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-58721142165614890712009-05-09T12:30:00.000-04:002009-05-09T12:30:00.000-04:00I hate waiting, but I'm used to it by now. First t...I hate waiting, but I'm used to it by now. First there was waiting for beta readers. Then queries which I've been sending for a month now. I'd actually prefer a ten-minute rejection to waiting because then the mystery is over. The mystery is the worst part. Thinking 'maybe this one will be the one.' And then so often it's not. <br /><br />I spend a lot of that time writing or reading. I've been doing a lot of reading lately. :) So many awesome books that I need to read.Rachaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11918987890132222901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-33889246395681811842009-05-07T22:31:00.000-04:002009-05-07T22:31:00.000-04:00Ooooh! The waiting! How do we ever manage to kee...Ooooh! The waiting! How do we ever manage to keep our sanity? LOL<br /><br />Lynnette Labelle<br />http://lynnettelabelle.blogspot.comLynnette Labellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03227593491562480538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-43420888283183053822009-05-07T21:27:00.000-04:002009-05-07T21:27:00.000-04:00Sigh. I always move away from the line with the m...Sigh. I always move away from the line with the mom and three kids, only to get stuck in a line that seems shorter, but has the putzy person who has to argue the price of every item and then decides to write a check as s-l-o-w-l-y as possible until it all makes me crazy!<br /><br />I do not like waiting, and am constantly impatient. The worst is queries and sent materials - working on other writing helps though, and it also keeps me close to the computer for obsessive email checking:PKate Karyus Quinnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15581176126578915929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-51418956108208763122009-05-07T17:36:00.000-04:002009-05-07T17:36:00.000-04:00Great post, although I'd qualify enjoying the wait...Great post, although I'd qualify enjoying the wait as something of an oxymoron. <br /><br />And for the record, I am totally that woman with the the kids and the pony tail in the check out line.lisa and laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18144863275895761642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-4195044146119890042009-05-07T14:40:00.000-04:002009-05-07T14:40:00.000-04:00Funny post, Elana.
I used to teach waiting. Or p...Funny post, Elana. <br /><br />I used to teach waiting. Or patience. In my other life. I've worked a long time helping problem horses. Which means helping - Problem Owners. The first thing I teach is, people need to remember when working with a horse to shift into the horse's thinking speed. Horses, if they are not panicked, think things through, a little slower than we do. So folks need to shift to what I call, Horse Time, and give the horse an honest chance.<br /><br />Sounds like we just need to move into what I reckon we could call, Writing Time. And learn to accept the waiting, happily as part of the whole. <br /><br />My tricks, riding of course, writing, reading, and just living…In Horse Time.<br /><br />Gitty up - DutchDutch Henryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03573659544816648399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-83592041227351461362009-05-07T13:42:00.000-04:002009-05-07T13:42:00.000-04:00Lynnrush, biking (I don't have a bike, bummer!)and...Lynnrush, biking (I don't have a bike, bummer!)and more running. Srsly? Is every writer a runner except for me? <br /><br />lapetus999 Now I'm going to spending some of my waiting time either A) watching Sesame Street hoping the song comes on or B) looking it up on any Internet site imaginable. Yay! Writing Distractions - wait that should have been one of the things I have in my toolkit! <br /><br />Rebecca, thanks for the snarfage! LOLOL.<br /><br />Sharla, yeah it is nice to take a day or two away from the whole writing game every now and then. I recently did that this weekend too. <br /><br />:)Elana Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05877856005992028912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-32920925361119947952009-05-07T13:40:00.000-04:002009-05-07T13:40:00.000-04:00I confess, I do sometimes pick the longest line at...I confess, I do sometimes pick the longest line at the grocery store if there is a good "National Enquirer" on display. Also, I am the mom with hair coming out of her ponytail with three kids.<br /><br />But as for waiting during submissions, I can only say it gets easier and your patience grows. My first go around with a book was brutal. I lived and died by the mail box (equeries weren't done back then). The next time it was jumping on the computer as soon as I woke up (I'm on the west coast and the agents are all on the east coast). This time around it is easier. One thing I found is that I need to be fully engaged in a new project. While the completed ms is making the rounds I am already a third of the way through a new project. <br /><br />I'm also involved in so many other things, I don't have time to worry. Try being a team mom for a little league team. That'll suck the free time right out of you.Renehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14966956368329586135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-39281602240550089612009-05-07T13:28:00.000-04:002009-05-07T13:28:00.000-04:00I've done like Rebecca and just watched TV with my...I've done like Rebecca and just watched TV with my husband. With no laptop appendage growing off me. He feels better because I'm actually talking back to him instead of his attempts at conversation bouncing off my head. And after the initial withdrawal symptoms of twitching fingers in need of checking the various four or five or ten sites, I am able to relax and enjoy the downtime.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-58205773116930692892009-05-07T12:30:00.000-04:002009-05-07T12:30:00.000-04:00In your words, #17 made me *snarf* out loud! ;)
I...In your words, #17 made me *snarf* out loud! ;)<br /><br />I've been sloooowly letting go and trying to enjoy the wait more and more. What a joy it is to be writing again, instead of just biting my nails and starting at my inbox.<br /><br />Also, I actually took a day or two recently where I didn't write or revise or query... I just sat there and watched TV with my husband. <br /><br />It. Was. Awesome!<br /><br />Thanks for the great post :).Rebecca Knighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15214077952378770753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-79870398528012775112009-05-07T12:12:00.000-04:002009-05-07T12:12:00.000-04:00Enjoy being a person? Is that allowed? What a grea...Enjoy being a person? Is that allowed? What a great post! I loved your list.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08616276555920544920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-66952646624362899742009-05-07T11:28:00.000-04:002009-05-07T11:28:00.000-04:00When I was a kid, Sesame Street had a jingle:
Wait...When I was a kid, Sesame Street had a jingle:<br />Waiting, waiting, waiting, so much fun!<br /><br />I think there's more but I can't remember or google it.Andrew Rosenberghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09215333688753781447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-50438798715240143122009-05-07T11:03:00.000-04:002009-05-07T11:03:00.000-04:00I agree - keeping super busy in other areas makes ...I agree - keeping super busy in other areas makes the wait more tolerable. It takes focus and planning!Tesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10014195715998913268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-43191827630673199272009-05-07T10:56:00.000-04:002009-05-07T10:56:00.000-04:00Awesome post. Yep waiting is tough, and I don't kn...Awesome post. Yep waiting is tough, and I don't know a single person who likes it. <br /><br />Great Ideas to help pass the time.Katie Salidashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15159923761047042193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-38180934767016406922009-05-07T10:44:00.000-04:002009-05-07T10:44:00.000-04:00Great post! So true. Those are fantastic things t...Great post! So true. Those are fantastic things to do while waiting. <br /><br />I like to road bike and trail run. Those always help pass the time too. Oh, and they are good for working out new story ideas for the writing while you wait option too! :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-16368679314679720662009-05-07T10:20:00.000-04:002009-05-07T10:20:00.000-04:00LOL Elana, you are just too awesome. I love this p...LOL Elana, you are just too awesome. I love this post! And it is just another reason one of my main "get through the waiting" tactics is talking to you :)<br /><br />Oh, by the way, I choose the shortest line at the grocery store because I AM the woman with her hair coming out of her ponytail with 2 (not 3) screaming kids :DMichelle McLeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08730366330276974943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-2498292275582346802009-05-07T10:06:00.000-04:002009-05-07T10:06:00.000-04:00I love this post! I try to read every day while I'...I love this post! I try to read every day while I'm writing, although I usually pick a book in a different genre than what I'm writing. The "Be a Real Person" is key - it keeps you focused on what's important. <br /><br />I also think having children changed my impatient nature by leaps and bounds. Asking a four-year-old to put on his socks involves more "waiting" than I ever could have imagined. By the time I started writing, I was already an expert on waiting!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05255908019822363456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-81508506412289261972009-05-07T09:50:00.000-04:002009-05-07T09:50:00.000-04:00Christine - run, beach. Added to toolkit. (But let...Christine - run, beach. Added to toolkit. (But let's face it, I'll never run. ;) )<br /><br />Stina, you run too? Ack! Maybe this is something I will have to do at some point in my life. <br /><br />Tricia - I like your outlook on it. Waiting for someone besides yourself. Thanks!<br /><br />Mandy - networking. Hmm...I'm filing this under "Research". :DElana Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05877856005992028912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-19763389108560028982009-05-07T09:36:00.000-04:002009-05-07T09:36:00.000-04:00Elana:
Great, great, great post!! Waiting is TOT...Elana:<br /><br />Great, great, great post!! Waiting is TOTALLY the hardest part and everything you listed has worked for me one way or another to get me through. It can really bring you down when you don't hear back from an agent day after day, but distraction is the best way to fight past it and networking with other writers and making new friends that can totally empathize is one hundred percent the best remedy for the waiting blues.Amanda Bonillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05983960181205765184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-20161699099412037352009-05-07T09:33:00.000-04:002009-05-07T09:33:00.000-04:00Loved this post, Elana. Especially the added empha...Loved this post, Elana. Especially the added emphasis on the waiting to hear back on queries and submissions.<br /><br />I run. A lot. I read. A lot. And I write. Unfortunately it's not until I start to work on the second draft that I can forget about my outstanding queries and submissions. And then I literally do that. The whole querying process for the previous book gets forgotten as I delved into my newest creation and try to make it better than my last. Okay, not the best approach for gaining an agent (except for the getting better part), but at least I'm not longer waiting. ;)Stinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11415189347501942340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-58511075346344097192009-05-07T09:32:00.000-04:002009-05-07T09:32:00.000-04:00Waiting for a response, be it for query, contest, ...Waiting for a response, be it for query, contest, acceptance of a submission, etc., means I'm waiting for someone besides myself. That means I must have sccomplished something to further my career and that's the kind of waiting I like.<br /><br />--TriciaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7454222325290313520.post-28566058779439871902009-05-07T09:31:00.000-04:002009-05-07T09:31:00.000-04:00I love the list..'cause, yeah, that is sure how it...I love the list..'cause, yeah, that is sure how it looks to me...waiting and waiting...and oh yeh, more waiting. My tricks on enduring the wait are te same as yours. Read, go for a run, hang at the beach, write and chat with friends - writers an Non-writers!<br /><br />Thanks for the great post!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com